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37. Married Guy Confessional (Part 2)

December 06, 2023 • Kristin Birdwell • Season 1 • Episode 37

My friend and 'Married Guy' confessed to me that there are a lot of things guys want to say aloud but can’t these days... and he wanted to say them. This is part TWO of a two-part episode covering his relationship with sex, being in a sexless marriage, becoming a sugar daddy, and an 'unspoken war on sex.' And heads up, if he sounds funny, it’s because it does… I changed his voice in post-production.

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This conversation explores the experiences and perspectives of a married man regarding the role of money and sex in his life. The man discusses his early experiences with sexuality, the lack of communication about sex in his marriage, and the influence of beauty and attraction. He also shares his feelings of rejection and loneliness, which led him to explore other options for intimacy. The conversation concludes with a discussion about the transition to online platforms for seeking companionship. This conversation explores the complexities and challenges of marriage and long-term relationships. The married man shares his thoughts on the value of marriage, the importance of respect, and the power of small gestures. He reflects on the beauty of intimacy and the difficulties of navigating difficult conversations. The commitment to family and the dilemma of unmet needs are also discussed. The conversation highlights the challenges of long-term marriage and the loneliness that can come with marriage struggles. The importance of finding support and embracing change is emphasized, along with the need for self-compassion.

Takeaways

Money and sex are powerful motivators for men, driving their actions and desires.
The lack of communication and connection in a marriage can lead to feelings of rejection and loneliness.
Beauty and attraction play a significant role in human interactions and can have a profound impact on individuals.
Seeking companionship outside of a marriage can be a response to unmet needs and desires. Marriage and long-term relationships are complex and require effort and understanding.
Respect and small gestures of love and appreciation are crucial for maintaining a healthy relationship.
Intimacy is a beautiful and important aspect of marriage, but it can be affected by unmet needs and difficult conversations.
Navigating the challenges of marriage requires commitment, support, and a willingness to embrace change.

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