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33. Sex Dungeons and Sugar Daddies with Palmar Kelly

November 01, 2023 • Kristin Birdwell • Season 1 • Episode 33

In this conversation, Kristin interviews Palmar Kelly, a screenwriter, actress, and sex worker. Palmar shares her journey into sex work, starting with a Craigslist ad that led her to a strip club. She then transitioned into being a sugar baby, finding empowerment and creative inspiration in her experiences. Palmar and Kristin discuss the complexities of relationships with sugar daddies, falling in love, and the blurred lines between sugar babying and escorting. They also highlight the healing power of intimacy and the importance of human connection in the sex work industry. In this conversation, Kristin and Palmar Kelly discuss the need for love and connection in the lives of sex workers. They explore the taboo and power of sexuality and how society's perception of sex work can impact shame and self-empowerment. They also discuss the resurgence of sexual liberation and the potential healing power of orgasm. Palmar shares her experiences building a social media following and her challenges in navigating censorship. Overall, the conversation highlights the importance of embracing and celebrating sexuality while challenging societal norms and expectations.

Takeaways

Sex work can provide empowerment, financial stability, and a wealth of life experiences.

Sugar babying and escorting offer different types of relationships and connections.
Creativity can be a powerful tool for processing and channeling sex work experiences.
Sex workers can provide a safe space for intimacy and healing.
Human connection and intimacy are essential for overall well-being. Sex workers need love and connection just like anyone else, and it is important to recognize and support their emotional well-being.
Sexuality is often seen as taboo, but it holds immense power and potential for healing and self-empowerment.
There is a resurgence of sexual liberation, with younger generations challenging societal norms and embracing their sexuality.
Orgasm and pleasure have scientifically proven benefits, and exploring and embracing one's sexuality can lead to personal growth and empowerment.

Chapters

00:58, Getting Started with Sex Work

03:18, Transition to Sugar Baby

05:19, Channeling Experiences into Creative Projects

06:10, Aha Moment for Creative Art Projects

07:30, The Hamptons Experience

08:41, The Weird Sex Castle

10:30, Bonding with Other Sugar Babies

12:44, Falling in Love with Sugar Daddies

13:22, Being Open about Sex Work on Social Media

15:47, Empowered and Disempowered Moments

17:44, Navigating Boundaries and Second Guesses

19:31, The Complexity of Sugar Baby Relationships

22:19, The Empowering Side of Sex Work

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